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After the New Year's post, Elaine requested an explanation of sorts for the kink-related tidbits I drop in my blog here and there. It basically comes down to three things:

1) I am a pervert. Always have been, always will be. So sue me.

2) I am open-minded, both experientially and conversationally. This means I prefer to live a no-fear approach both in and out of the bedroom, and also that I have no qualms talking about or trying out new things.

3) I am lucky to be surrounded by like-minded people. I have some fabulous friends and know some extraordinary personalities.

It might be better to say that I'm sexually liberated, rather than giving myself too much credit as an actual bona-fide pre-vert. Sure, Justin and I own a dumptruck of toys, but they spend most of the time locked in the Magic Porn Chest with his old VHS tapes.

It'd be a stretch to say that I'm "into" BDSM. I'm just a wee little Kinkster taking baby steps away from the mindset that I should be ashamed about my aversion to the mundane. The fact is, I'm pretty much willing to give anything a try, within safety and reason. Good, giving, and game as they say.

In truth, it took an "enabler" to get this pervert to the point where she could undersand that Kinksters, whether into BDSM, Swinging or what-have-you, weren't all messed up in the head. (Maybe I just suspected *I* was?) Thank Monk and Justin for that. After they dragged me (not exactly kicking and screaming) to the Wet Spot's naked sushi competition, to Folsom street fair and to work as a rope gnome, being perverted just didn't seem all that scary any more. Best not to reject what you really are, you know.

So far, what my adventures amount to is that we've met a lot of fabulous people, had many fascinating conversations, and been to some great events and parties where we've done things that most people wouldn't want photographed but would categorize as "mostly harmless."

Yes, I'm looking for a good time, with my partner whom I love... but I'm also looking for open discourse with like-minded people, a chance to push my limits, and maybe a reason to keep from ever getting bored. I'm not anybody's slave, a bondage master, or a pro domme. I'm only part furry, and I think I say that more out of endearment than truth. I'm just a freaky schoolgirl who doesn't mind embarrasing herself online.

(Bring on the google hits!)

I don't write about Kink in much detail because a) this isn't a sex blog (though what KIND of blog it is remains to be determined) and b) my family occasionally visits here, but apparently not enough to know or care that I'm a superfreak. So I'll remain elusive about all the fun an games, except for many posting an occasional picture.

And please, curb the harassment about me being a social/sexual deviant. That's only part of who I am. OK, most of who I am. But nevertheless.

I hope this answers any questions.