The First Born

Characteristic Bad Feeling: Guilt [SO TRUE ARGH...]
Strategies for survival: Placating, Covering Up [??]
Felt Loss: Love [yup.]
Sense of Justice: People should get what they deserve [not so true so much]
Strategies for solving the original challenges: Wait for attention [makes sense]
Thought Pattern: Research [YES and NO. Reasearch and Intuition. Depends on the subject matter.]
T-shirt: "I don't know, what do you think?" [AAAAAAAHAHAHA! YES!!!]
Childhood Behavior: Demanding, Show off [But... mooooooooooommmmmmm....]
Emotional Expression: Flat [?? not so sure, maybe?]
Source of Anger: Lack of Respect [shit yeah. You betta recognize!]
Nature of Humor: Teasing/ Shock - outrageous humor [ ; ) ]
Means of Relating: Placating [??]
Means of relating: Works to impress others to get their admiration [sorry, I'm a brownnoser]
Whom they understand on a gut level: Just other first borns [um, no.]
Spirituality: Relational spirituality, wants to have a loving community [a harem maybe...]
Relational: Fears others may be offended, Feels obliged to satisfy others; Placater [YUP. A huge problem.]
The Child Within: Feels Abandoned [YUP.]
Type of Procrastination: Dreaming instead of doing (Puts off doing practical things while dreaming of accomplishing great things) [Big YUP.]
Blind spot: Inability to tell what he/she thinks, feels, wants [so true it's scary]
Boundaries: Others have absolute boundaries [meaning, I see other people in terms of absolutes. But not myself? maybe true]
A walk in the woods: Plunges into the woods pursuing distant goal, gets into difficulty [Hell yes.]
Careers: Business, Research, Counseling, Promotion, Speaking [no, no, yes, yes, yes]
Strengths: Goal-setting, Compromise, Leadership [yes to all three]
Parenting: Directs children towards dreams [I hope so]
Marriage: Goes along with what partner wants [pretty much yeah... it's much easier when someone else chooses]
As Friend: Compromising, Serving [as a hostess, yes. As a doormat, no.]
Social Contributions: Discoveries, Information, Dreams [yes.]
Expression of Love: Agreement [absolutely. that's really it. I'd never thought of it that way before but you're right.]
Driving Style: Cautiously, As if everyone is out to get him or her [I don't think so??]
Listening Style: Listens only to others, not self [yeah, but I'm bad at listening to others, too]
Common Phrase: "I don't know" [wait, wait, I have to laugh it's so true.... hahaha]
Effective Confrontations: "I would appreciate it if you would..." [yes, and I will smack you]
Responds To: "You may not agree with this, but...." [probably]
Thought patterns: Relate things to the future [always]


What's your birth order? (via Trinity)

And for my mate:

Only Child/First Child: If you are an only child male, you can make this a good relationship by understanding that the first born is often vague about what she feels, wants or needs. By paying close attention to her nonverbal communication, you can orient yourself to her. Unless you pay attention to nonverbal cues, this could be a difficult relationship for you. You will be trying to satisfy her as you imagine she wants rather than knowing her. . If you are a female only, your relationship with a first born is likely to be compatible. He will tend to rely on you for direction.